January: Becoming
Welcome to Your Journey
Welcome to 2026, and welcome to the first month of our year-long journey: Grow with the Flow.
This isn't just another year—it's an invitation to move through twelve months of intentional growth together as a community. Each month, we'll explore a new theme that builds on the last, creating a complete cycle of transformation from winter to winter again.
And we begin exactly where all growth begins: with Becoming.
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Becoming isn't about arriving at a destination or achieving a goal. It's about recognizing that you are already in process, already evolving, already transforming. Right now, in this very moment, you are becoming.
For many of us navigating perimenopause, menopause, retirement, empty nesting, or caring for aging parents, this truth is undeniable. Our bodies are changing. Our roles are shifting. Our identities are evolving. The question isn't if we're becoming something new—it's who are we becoming, and can we flow with that transformation rather than resist it?
This month, we're asking: Who am I becoming as I flow into this new year?
Not what will you accomplish. Not what will you fix. Not what will you achieve. But who are you becoming?
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Think about a seed in winter soil. Before it can grow upward and outward, it must first awaken. It must recognize its own potential for transformation. It must begin the process of becoming what it's meant to be.
That's where we are in January. We're planting the seed of our year-long growth. We're awakening to the possibility of who we can become. We're setting the foundation for everything that will unfold in the months ahead.
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Winter (Jan-Mar): Becoming, Connecting, Clarifying - We awaken and orient ourselves
Spring (Apr-Jun): Rooting, Nourishing, Flourishing - We establish and grow
Summer (Jul-Aug): Thriving, Flowing - We express and surrender
Fall (Sep-Nov): Grounding, Releasing, Harvesting - We transition and gather
Winter (Dec): Stilling - We rest and integrate
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Every great transformation begins with the question: Who am I becoming?
I am becoming. I trust the process. I am exactly where I need to be.
Write this somewhere you'll see it daily.
Yoga Philosophy: The Foundation of Becoming
This month's practices are rooted in ancient yoga wisdom that honors the journey of self-discovery.
Building on December's Reflection
If you were with us in December, you spent the month practicing Svadhyaya (self-study) through our Reflection theme. You looked back at 2024, witnessed your patterns, observed what worked and what didn't. That practice wasn't just about ending the year, it was preparing you for exactly where we are now.
December's reflection was the soil preparation. January's becoming is the planting of seeds.
Everything you learned about yourself in December—the insights, the realizations, the honest observations—becomes the foundation for who you're becoming in 2026. You can't consciously become someone new without first knowing who you are right now. That's the gift December gave you.
Svadhyaya (Self-Study) & Remembering Your True Self
"Svadhyaya" means self-study, and it's one of the five Niyamas (personal observances) in Patanjali's Yoga Sutras. In December, we used svadhyaya to reflect and witness. In January, we continue that practice but shift our focus: instead of looking back, we're looking inward and forward. Instead of asking "what was," we're asking "what is" and "what's emerging."
But this isn't self-criticism or self-judgment, it's curious, compassionate observation of who you are right now and who you're becoming.
Here's the beautiful paradox: yoga philosophy teaches that "becoming" is actually about remembering. We're not creating a new self from scratch, we're uncovering the self that's always been there beneath the layers of conditioning, expectations, and life experiences (what yoga calls samskaras, or impressions).
Think about it: Who were you before the world told you who you should be? Before the roles, the responsibilities, the "shoulds"? That essential self, your truest nature, is still there. Your December reflections may have already shown you glimpses of this: moments when you felt most yourself, times when you were aligned with your truth. The practice of becoming is the practice of peeling away what's not truly you to reveal what's always been true.
The shift from December to January:
December: "What did I learn about myself this year?"
January: "Who am I becoming based on what I now know?"
Svadhyaya continues, but the questions evolve. We're still witnessing ourselves without trying to change what we see, but now we're also noticing what wants to emerge, what's calling to be cultivated, and what's ready to bloom.
In your practice this month: Notice when you're being kind to yourself vs. critical. Observe your patterns on the mat without judgment. Ask yourself: "Is this belief/reaction/pattern truly mine, or did I learn it from someone else?" Look for what December's reflection revealed that's ready to guide your becoming. Simply witness what is, and what wants to be remembered.
Sankalpa (Heartfelt Intention)
"Sankalpa" is often translated as "intention" or "resolve," but it's much deeper than a New Year's resolution. A sankalpa is a statement that comes from deep within you, from a place of truth, not from what you think you should want.
If you set a sankalpa in December, notice if it still resonates or if something new is calling. Sometimes the act of reflection reveals what we truly need to cultivate.
A sankalpa for becoming might sound like:
"I am becoming more compassionate with myself"
"I am becoming someone who trusts the process"
"I am becoming comfortable with change"
"I am becoming grounded in my own wisdom"
Notice these are stated in present tense, as if they're already true. Because in some way, they already are.
In your practice this month: Listen deeply to what wants to emerge in you this year. What quality is calling to be cultivated? What did December's reflection show you about what you need? Let your sankalpa arise naturally rather than forcing it.
Parinama (Transformation)
"Parinama" refers to the natural, continuous transformation that is always occurring. In Yoga Sutra 3.15, Patanjali explains that everything in the universe is constantly changing, we are always in flux, always becoming.
This teaching reminds us that transformation isn't something we create, it's something we allow. It's already happening. December ended, January began—you transformed simply by moving through time. Your December reflections themselves were transformation happening: you changed through the very act of witnessing yourself.
In your practice this month: Notice the small transformations happening all the time: your breath changing, your body warming, your mind settling. Notice how you're different today than you were in December. You are always becoming.
Reflection Prompts for Journaling
Who Am I Right Now?
Without referencing any roles (mother, wife, employee, etc.), who am I in this moment?
What three words would I use to describe myself today?
What parts of my identity feel solid? What parts feel like they're shifting?
How do I feel in my body right now? What is my body trying to tell me?
What Am I Ready to Release?
What version of myself am I ready to let go of?
What beliefs about who I "should" be no longer serve me?
What expectations (my own or others') am I carrying that feel heavy?
If I could shed one thing to make space for new growth, what would it be?
Who Am I Becoming?
When I imagine myself at the end of 2026, what qualities do I see in that version of me?
What wants to emerge through me this year?
If I wasn't afraid, who would I become?
What does my wisest self know about who I'm meant to be?
How Will I Support My Becoming?
What practices will support the person I'm becoming?
Who in my life supports my growth? How can I connect with them more?
What does my becoming need from me: time, space, permission, resources?
How can I show up for my own transformation with compassion and patience?
Home Practices to Deepen Into the Theme
As you deepen your yoga practice at the studio, these additional home practices are designed to complement what you're learning in class and deepen your connection to this month's theme of Becoming.
Choosing Your Word of the Year
One powerful practice for January is selecting a single word that will guide your year. This isn't a goal or a to-do…it's a touchstone, a quality you want to embody or cultivate as you become. Click on the link below to access an exclusive Word of the Year workbook to help you determine your Word for 2026.
Morning Practice: Awakening to Becoming (5-10 minutes)
Try this simple practice each morning to set the tone for your day and deepen your connection to this month's theme.
Arrive (1 min)
Sit comfortably. Close your eyes. Take three deep breaths.
Journal (3-4 min)
Open your journal and write on one of above journal promptsNotice (1 min)
Scan your body. Notice how you feel after writing. This is self-study (svadhyaya).Set Your Intention (1 min)
Silently state your sankalpa (or simply say: "I am becoming"). Let it settle into your heart.Move (2-3 min)
Stand and flow through 3-5 rounds of Cat/Cow or gentle Sun Salutations. Notice your body changing, warming, becoming different than it was a moment ago.Close
Place your hands at your heart. Whisper "I am becoming" and carry that awareness into your day.
Pranayama (Breathing) Practice: Nadi Shodhana (Alternate Nostril Breathing)
This balancing breath helps us find equilibrium as we navigate change.
How to practice:
Sit comfortably with a tall spine
Use your right thumb to close your right nostril
Inhale through your left nostril
Close your left nostril with your right ring finger, release your thumb
Exhale through your right nostril
Inhale through your right nostril
Close your right nostril, release your left
Exhale through your left nostril
This completes one round—practice 5-10 rounds
Why this practice: As we become, we need balance. This breath reminds us that transformation doesn't mean losing ourselves, it means integrating all parts of who we are.
Evening Ritual: Witnessing Your Day (5 minutes)
Before bed, take a few minutes to witness your day with curiosity rather than judgment.
Sit comfortably with your journal or simply close your eyes
Replay your day like watching a movie:
What moments stand out?
When did you feel most like yourself?
When did you notice old patterns or habits?
Where did something new want to emerge?
Ask yourself: "What did today teach me about who I'm becoming?"
Close with gratitude for one thing, even if it's just: "I showed up today."
This practice builds self-awareness without self-criticism. You're simply noticing, witnessing, learning.
Creating Your Grow with the Flow Altar
An altar is a sacred space in your home dedicated to your intention and transformation. This month, create your "Grow with the Flow Altar", a space you'll use all year long as the foundation for your monthly rituals and practices.
Why Create an Altar?
It gives you a physical anchor for the entire year-long Grow with the Flow journey
It creates a dedicated space for your journaling, reflections, breathing practices, and monthly rituals throughout all twelve themes
It anchors your spiritual practice in the tangible world
It honors the sacredness of your transformation through every season of growth
How to Create Your Altar:
Choose Your Space
Find a small space in your home
It doesn't need to be large—even a 12x12 inch space works
Somewhere you can sit in front of comfortably for a few minutes
Choose mindfully, this will be your practice space for the entire year
Cleanse the Space
Clear everything off the surface
Wipe it clean (you can use water, or water with a drop of essential oil)
Smudge the space with Palo Santo or Sage
Set the intention: "This space holds my journey through Grow with the Flow"
Build Your Altar Mindfully Consider including items that represent:
Your Intention/Sankalpa:
Write your word of the year or January sankalpa on beautiful paper
Frame it or place it in a small dish
The Elements (optional but traditional):
Earth: Crystal, stone, plant, flowers, soil in a small bowl
Water: Small bowl or jar of water
Fire: Candle (this is essential, you'll light it for your practices)
Air: Incense, feather, or simply the breath you bring to the space
Space/Ether: Leave some empty space…don't overcrowd
Symbols of Your Journey:
Your Becoming Board (if you attend the January workshop)
Items that represent qualities you're cultivating this month
Objects from nature that speak to the current theme (these will evolve monthly—seeds in January, flowers in June, leaves in October)
The Grow with the Flow graphic
Meaningful quotes or passages that resonate with this month's focus
Mala beads or prayer beads (if you use them)
Personal & Sacred Objects:
Items passed down from wise women in your life
Tokens from meaningful experiences
Anything that helps you feel connected to your truest self
Objects that will remain constant while other items change with the months
Keep It Simple
Less is more—choose 3-7 items that truly resonate
You can change items as the month progresses and different things call to you
There's no "right" way to do this
Using Your Altar Throughout the Year:
Daily Morning Practice at Your Altar:
Light your candle
Sit for a moment in silence, taking three deep breaths
Do your morning journaling practice here
State your sankalpa or the monthly theme
Blow out the candle mindfully before you leave
Evening Practice at Your Altar:
Light your candle
Practice your evening reflection ritual here
Or simply sit in silence for 5 minutes
Notice what on your altar draws your attention today—what is it telling you?
Blow out the candle with gratitude
Monthly Altar Transitions:
At the end of each month, you'll refresh your altar for the new theme
Some items will stay (your candle, sacred objects, elements)
Some items will change (your written intention, theme-specific objects, seasonal nature items)
This monthly ritual of transition honors the completion of one theme and the beginning of the next
Each month's guide will offer suggestions for altar items specific to that theme
Becoming Board Workshop Follow-Up
If you attend the January 16th Becoming Board Workshop:
Your board is a living practice, not a one-time project. Here are ways to keep working with it throughout the month:
Make a commitment to finish the board by the end of January - After the workshop, you’ll find the images that represent who you want to become.
Start to build a plan - how will you become the images you’ve put on your board?
Work to replace the images with actual images of you.
You will continue to work with your board all year.
Integration: Bringing It to the Studio
The most important practice is showing up for yourself. When you come to the studio this month:
Notice what themes or cues the teachers are offering around "becoming"
Pay attention to moments in class when you feel most yourself
Observe when old patterns show up (comparing, pushing, resisting)
Celebrate moments when something new emerges
Connect with your sangha—share your journey if you feel called
Your home practices support your studio practice. Your studio practice is where the real transformation happens—in community, with guidance, with accountability.
We're becoming together.
Recommended Reading & Listening
Want to go deeper? Here are some resources:
Books:
The Yamas & Niyamas by Deborah Adele (especially the chapter on Svadhyaya)
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown - about becoming who you're meant to be
The Luminous Self: Sacred Yogic Practices and Rituals to Remember Who You Are
by Tracee Stanley-Newell
Think Like a Monk by Jay Shetty - A guide to letting go, growing, and giving based on monk wisdom. The "LET GO" section includes powerful chapters on Identity, Intention, and Fear that perfectly align with becoming.
Untamed by Glennon Doyle - A memoir about remembering who you were before the world told you who to be.
Yoga Sutras of Patanjali - Book 2, verses on the Niyamas (particularly Sutras 2.1, 2.32, and 2.44-45 on Svadhyaya)
Podcasts:
The Mel Robbins Podcast - Episode: "How to Make 2026 the Best Year: 6 Questions to Ask Yourself"
On Purpose with Jay Shetty - Episodes: "10 Things I Am Leaving Behind in 2024 to Make Space for 2025" or “6 Step Blueprint to Achieve All Your Goals in 2025”
A Note from Annie
Dear South River Sangha,
As I sit down to write this first monthly guide, I'm so aware that I'm becoming too. I'm becoming a teacher who trusts you to find your own answers. I'm becoming someone who holds space rather than always filling it. I'm becoming more comfortable with not knowing what's next.
And I'm so grateful to be becoming alongside all of you.
Here's what I love about yoga's approach to becoming: it teaches us that we're not actually creating something new. We're remembering. We're peeling away the layers of habits, conditioning, and patterns we've developed from life experiences, the things we learned to do to survive, to fit in, to be accepted. Beneath all of that is who we truly are. Who we were always meant to be.
This year, this journey through "Grow with the Flow", is as much for me as it is for you. Each month, I'll be working with the same themes, asking the same questions, doing the same practices. We're truly in this together.
January's question, "Who am I becoming?", doesn't have a final answer. Because we're always becoming. That's the beauty of it. We're never done. We're always in process. We're always flowing.
So let's begin. Let's become. Let's trust that whatever is unfolding in us is exactly what needs to unfold.
With so much love and gratitude,
Annie

